Castillo San Marcos

Castillo San Marcos
13th-century castle, El Puerto de Santa Maria. That WAS our house to the left and behind the tree!

Friday, September 16, 2011

Settling In: Daily Life in Spain


The boxes are gone, the clothes unpacked, the kitchen is organized, beds are put together and made, drawers reorganized, we bought a TV.  The girls are in school, Todd did his first abdominal case, the cats have adjusted well and no longer try to bolt out the front door, and I…well, I am trying to find my routine, my rhythm.

Spain is becoming familiar.  There are so many wonderful day trips to make from Puerto, we look forward to the weekends.  Back in August we traveled about 45 minutes to Caña de Meca, a steep beach with turquoise water and a lighthouse on a point of land that can supposedly rival Santa Barbara’s Rincon Point for perfectly formed waves in the winter.  The beach was busy, and Tia and Sasha were fascinated with the people digging up black clay and smearing it on themselves from head to foot—of course they followed suit!  We went to Arcos de la Frontera the following weekend, a lovely pueblo blanco also about 45 minutes away.  Situated on a hill with the white houses cascading down the side, you can look out across the countryside of dried sunflowers and plowed fields to the next pueblo blanco.  Next we will tackle Sevilla, a short 90-minute drive from Puerto.

But before the girls started school, I just had to get my Germany fix.  Over the past few years, my yearning for Germany, a place I’d lived for a year when I was 16, and again when I was 23, had grown stronger and stronger.  With the girls’ vacations looking a lot more like the US traditional school calendar than the German one with short summers and ample breaks during the school year (rats), I was not willing to wait until next spring to go back to Germany.  So we booked Ryan Air, the European counterpart to Southwest, and flew off to Germany to visit Sophie, my cousin who had lived with us all last year.

Ah, Germany!  Land of Green Forests and Sparkling Meadows!  Land of Good Things to Eat!  Land of Cleanliness and Order, Land of On-Time Trains, Land of Do-Not-Touch-The-Toys-Even-Though-You-Are-In-A-Toy-Store!  We had five wonderful days there, enjoying the bread, cheesecake, wursts, cheese, fruits, pastries, chocolate, and did I mention the bread?  Sophie’s parents, Hans and Paige, took us all around to the Wiesbaden marketplace, to their secret garden house, to castles and churches and steep Rheinland vineyards. With Sophie we went shopping through the pedestrian zone and stopped for snacks in the two cafes she works at.  My cousin Fiona, who took me under her wing when I was 16 and newly arrived in Germany, drove out from Frankfurt to have dinner with us.  It was all so achingly familiar, I wondered how it had only been two years that I had lived there, and 17 years since I had last visited, and yet the German countryside with its leafy forests, street signs, and villages nestled in little valleys every few kilometers were so much a part of me.  How could I feel so at home?  

As a final adventure, we took the train down to Baden-Baden, about 2 hours from Wiesbaden.  Baden-Baden is the ritzy-est of the Roman Bath towns that lie along the border with France.  Hot-water upwellings were first exploited widely by the Romans, and have been a source of kur (healing) since at least that long.  My friend Arzu, a doctor I befriended in Tübingen when we were both students there, lives and works in this old, elegant, picturesque city tucked into a valley and rising up onto the hillsides.  While we waited for Arzu to be done with work for the day, we visited the baths.  And what baths!  Think of the fanciest pool you know, then multiply by at least 9.  That’s how many different pools and swimming areas there were, from the wedding-cake-lookalike of the main pool, which had successively higher smaller pools stacked inside of it, to the hot pool (with waterfall), the cold pool (also with waterfall), the steam room, the brine steam room (cures anything), and that was just inside!  Outside was another series of pools and cascades connected together so you never had to leave the water.  My personal favorite was the bubble blast pool in the center of the largest outdoor pool—each time the bubbles came on, Tia and Sasha were  swept out of this little pool by the ensuing current, and I had to haul them back in, kicking and laughing. 

We left green, wet, cold, rainy, beautiful Germany and flew back to Spain to heat and summer.  We continue to explore our adopted town—the bakery just around the corner with the smell of fresh bread every morning, Pizza Jerry’s with its delightful oven and authentic thin-crust Italian pizzas, the second-hand feria dress shop (Feria Dresses! Album, click on "slideshow"), the pedestrian zone with its shops.  I even went into a bank and two hours later emerged with a Spanish bank account.  I work on balancing my day, from writing this blog to performing my pool-girl duties, to cleaning and shopping and cooking, to exploring and meeting new friends for coffee.  I try not to feel guilty! 

Monday, September 5, 2011

Horse Racing in Sanlúcar de Barrameda, Bullfights in Puerto

At Las Marias, on Bienvenida and Romera
Horses have been an ongoing theme here with us.  Sasha, Tia, and I have started riding lessons Inglesa, which is the fancy dressage way of riding.  My many years of riding make me comfortable with the horses, but I have NO idea what I am doing in terms of style!  Tia and Sasha and I love it, though, and the Andalusian horses are just plain gorgeous.

Ready to ride...
Along with the Andalusian caballos, there are some horse things that are truly different in Spain.  You might think that Spain, as part of the EU, would be more tightly regulated, bureaucratic, and strict about everything.  And in some ways that is true:  to get our own horse (the Mercedes) on the road here and out of the storage lot, we had to buy two reflective triangles you could set up around your car if it were to break down on the highway, plus a reflective vest to don in order to leave the car.  These three items MUST be within the driver’s reach from the front seat—no storing them in the trunk!  Plus, you had to have one of each of the lightbulbs that are on the outside of your car:  headlight, brakelight, blinker.  Also in reach of the driver (not that I would know how to install them!). 

However, there seem to be a lot of things that are tolerated here, such as parking in a no-parking zone (well, except in front of the Cruz Roja, as we found out, see blog #1), high school kids openly having rum-and-cokes in the plaza of the castle, and on-track betting on the beach in Sanlúcar.   Sanlúcar de Barrameda is a small town about 20 km from Puerto.  Like Puerto and Rota, it is also on the beach, but at the mouth of the Rio Guadalquivir (the same one that Cristobal Colón, aka Christopher Columbus, sailed from on his way to the New World).  The sand and mud make the beach very flat here, and twice in August at low tide there are horse races on the beach.  Thought to have begun with fishermen racing their horses while waiting for the tide to come in, these horse races have become a local phenomenon.  Just a thin plastic fence of sorts separates the crowds from the “racetrack.”  Bathers stream over this fence and into the water, playing paddleball and walking the beach, until the National Guardsmen stationed every 50 meters or so blow a whistle.  Within 30 seconds, the once-crowded beach clears, with everyone piling back over the floppy fence. 
Waiting for the ponies with Daniela and Isabella
First the horses come cavorting down the beach at a walk or trot on their way to the starting gate, tossing their heads.  This is so you can choose your favorite and place a bet.  Once you decide who you like (one race, I took “Cannibal”  while Todd chose “Vodka Lemon”), you head to the betting stand.  Do not mistake the betting stand for a lemonade stand, although the resemblance is unmistakeable.  Also do not mistake the 8-year-old bookie taking your money for a child—well, although he or she IS a child.  Betting at Sanlúcar works like this:  a kid sets up his betting stand, draws a line across the racetrack even with his stand, and begins to sell caramelos (yes, you actually get a caramelo candy when you place your bet).  Choose your horse, place your bet, and you get a little handwritten slip of paper written in crayon with your bet and your horse, along with your carmelo.  No matter where you are on the beach racetrack, whichever horse first passes the line in the sand is the “winner” for your bet. 
Next, wait for the police car to come racing down the beach, lights flashing and siren on.  The horses are coming!  Both times we scored a spot right on the orange plastic fence, and the horses thundered by only 20 feet away.  Our third race was the most spectacular:  the tide had gone WAY out, leaving large flat areas in front of us.  Three trailing horses, trying to make better time, cut across this mud flat.  Suddenly the horses slipped, sinking nearly knee-deep in mud, with two of them throwing their riders.  Out came the ambulance as the riderless horses slogged their way out of the mud and cantered on down the beach.  We never did find out if anyone was seriously hurt, but both jockeys walked to the ambulance.



Our next horse adventure came in the middle of our first trip to the bullfights.  Todd and I had discussed taking Tia and Sasha with us; while neither of us had actually seen a bullfight, we knew it didn’t end well for the bull.  But it was the last fight of the year, and we simply couldn’t wait until next summer to find out what it was all about.  Plus, the bullring in Puerto is a 10-minute walk from our house.


La Plaza de Toros, El Puerto de Santa Maria
The spectacle was just like the book Ferdinando.  First came the guy with the sign displaying the bull’s name, ranch, and weight.  Then the bull marches in, with the junior toreros teasing him to make him show his stuff.  Next come the picadors with their long lances; they wait for the bull to charge their horse, then stick the lance into the bull.  To further slow down the bull, the banderilleros come out and stab some more muscle-relaxing picos into the bull’s neck (this is quite spectacular, as it consists of the banderillero running directly at the bull, the bull charging him, the banderillero running a half-circle around the charging bull, and stabbing these three-foot-long harpoon-like things into the charging bull’s neck).  Finally the matador takes control with his cape, strutting and getting the bull to charge on his orders. 



During the second fight, we had an intense shock:  out came the huge, beautiful, armored horses with the picadors astride.  The bull, a 450-kg feisty thing, charged one of the horses and lifted him off the ground.  Then, to our horror, the bull swung his horns and knocked the horse completely over.  I gasped in panic, looking at Tia and Sasha, while the bull proceeded to gore the soft underside of the horse, swinging his vicious horns and repeatedly smashing into the horse’s abdomen.  The horse was apparently dead, lying on its side and showing no signs of life.  The junior toreros closed in, distracting the bull and drawing him away from the poor horse.  By this time Tia and Sasha were bawling their eyes out, and all I could say was, “I’m so sorry.  I’m so sorry.”  We watched, unable to draw our eyes from the downed horse, as the picador (who had jumped off and run away when his horse went down) stooped down to caress the dying horse’s head.  We then watched in disbelief as the horse raised its head, then got up, gave a little shake, let the picador mount up, and walked out of the ring as though nothing had happened.   We realized that the horse’s body armor extended all the way around the horse, and that these horses must undergo some outrageously against-their-nature training that has them play possum when downed and repeatedly charged by a bull. 

Like I said, there are some things—like underage betting and bullfights—that you just won’t get to experience in the U.S.!